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Your Nervous System's Favorite Disguise: Practical Concerns
Why Your Most Practical Question Is Actually Nervous System Protection
Feb 23
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Nicola Vitkovich
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What Lives in Your Gut vs. What Lives in Your Heart
What happens when you stop running from your patterns and start rewriting them
Feb 17
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Nicola Vitkovich
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Pain Isn't Always About the Event
How working with the mind's predictions resolved post-surgical pain.
Feb 9
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Nicola Vitkovich
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January 2026
Why Your Nervous System Keeps Choosing Familiar Pain Over Unknown Peace
Our patterns are outdated solutions to old problems.
Jan 12
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The Real Reason Change Doesn't Stick (What Actually Works)
10 years of memory work taught me what was missing
Jan 5
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Nicola Vitkovich
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December 2025
You’re Not Resisting Change. Your FRAME Is.
We don’t break beliefs. We loosen up our M.U.D. and update the FRAME they’re living in.
Dec 23, 2025
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Nicola Vitkovich
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November 2025
From ‘I’m Not Ready’ to ‘I’m Ready’: De-hypnotizing a Lifetime of Waiting
Inside the shift from anxious procrastination to calm, consistent doing
Nov 20, 2025
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Nicola Vitkovich
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October 2025
Your Mind Is a GPS (Is Yours Stuck on “Don’t Want”?)
Why your thoughts keep replaying old pain (and how to set a new destination).
Oct 25, 2025
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Nicola Vitkovich
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The Belief That Drives Everything I Do
For anyone who’s ever thought, “Why can’t I just get it right?”
Oct 16, 2025
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Nicola Vitkovich
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August 2025
When Your Body Mistakes the Present for the Past
How anxiety is protection that has passed its expiration date
Aug 25, 2025
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Nicola Vitkovich
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June 2025
Two Simple Tweaks That 10X’d My Gratitude Practice
Why gratitude matters (and why most people get it wrong)
Jun 12, 2025
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Nicola Vitkovich
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April 2025
Why Every Problem Hurts More Than It Should (and How to Heal It)
Loss is everywhere. So is the power to heal.
Apr 26, 2025
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Nicola Vitkovich
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